I can use my energy positive to encourage the others without thinking that this kind of energy need time to be refilled.
So I complains the things that I feels not quite beautiful or event right (based on my own opinion). That makes usually the other feel not only uncomfortable but also depressed or event angry to me. I may preview that a person unknown can be shacked, but never on my friends, especially my close friend.
Unfortunately, it happened not long ago, I feel the pain from my deep thought, and sorry for the person who should never heard those phrases.
Then I realized that not everything i can share with anyone, event they are my best friends, we all have to respect our credit opinion on certain subject. And this is one of course I learned grime that moment.
Now, I appreciate it for teaching me all this and let me be a little hit more wiser than younger me.